Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner.It can be tempting to be in touch with your new mate all day and all night and it’s easier than ever to do this with text, email and instant messaging, but too much contact can easily stifle a new love.
There is no way to avoid taking emotional risks when dating.
There’s something lovely about being told that you were on someone’s mind all week but there’s no need for you to contact each other with every passing thought.
We’ve all had trials and tribulations in life and there will be a time when, as a part of your deepening relationship, you will share these with each other, but offloading all your emotional baggage on to a date is likely to crush any hope of a future together.
So you’ve finally met a match that you’re really interested in and the feeling’s mutual.
But how you proceed in these early days with determine whether this becomes a real relationship or fizzles out.