I don't know why, I don't know how, I only know that I was at the supermarket one fine morning, minding my own business, when suddenly I came face to face with "the sun-dried plum." I will tell you right now that I'm a fan of the prune -- particularly when it's in Danish form -- but the prune was clearly not selling.For the prune to turn heads (not to mention meet a nice guy, move to the suburbs, and have a couple of baby prunes) it needed a fresh marketing strategy.I know it sounds like a tall order, but if the prune can do it, so can you. Women who look directly at the camera while making flirty faces or smiling tend to get more messages than those who smile or look flirty without eye contact.Ok Cupid found that making eye contact with the camera is effective with some facial expressions, but less so with others. For both sexes, not smiling while making eye contact is an ineffective pose. So how do you cobble together something from a pile of nothing? If not, the person you’re contacting probably has 10 emails just like yours sitting on the computer screen. Even though you’re writing to someone out of the blue, do so with the belief that this person would be lucky to have you. Your profile ultimately does the selling; your email just has to pique their interest.Well, you can start by remembering these three basic rules: It’s not that “You’ve got a great smile, let’s go out sometime” is a bad opener. I read your profile and thought it was really amazing. So please look at my profile and if you like what I had to say, write back to me when you get a chance. If you’re too complimentary in that initial email, you can come off as desperate and needy. Still, the question remains: how do you say something original and flirty?You want him to push that email button as fast as he can to contact and meet you.
but those guys are always getting caught cheating on their wives, so why would I want to live that life?
It sure would make writing this more entertaining, and reading it would be much more fun too. Maybe the rock-star lifestyle would be fun, but I don’t want to live that life and a girl that’s looking for that is not for me.
I could tell you about all the exotic cities and expensive hotels I’ve stayed at while being on tour. While my story might be Rolling Stone worthy, I do work hard, pay my bills, enjoy the company of my friends & family …
The optimal pose for guys' pics: don't smile, don't make eye contact.
If you met an attractive man at a party, you would be showing him your best side and flirting up a storm. For some women that sounds horrid but in real life we do it all the time.