Some of the mistakes I made are long-lasting and quite irreparable.
However, pure luck and a lot of practice has allowed me to forge genuine friendships with these wonderful women.
Since polygamy and man-sharing isn’t desirable to most, opening up your dating options to include an international pool suddenly turns your love life into an ocean of possibilities. ” She goes on to say that her pal feels “freer and more creative” outside these United States.Take Brooklyn native, Ieishah Clelland, who packed up her big apples and went to Barcelona, Spain and Belgrade, Serbia and quickly came to discover her deep brown skin and curvy figure were a hot commodity. According to her, issues of slavery, Jim Crow, and the “mammy/Slore” stereotype generally don’t come into play, so that makes the baggage a bit lighter, so to speak. Hmmmm…he feels freer outside the ‘land of the free? Apparently, chaps in certain parts of Europe, the Balkans and the Netherlands are climbing over the blue-eyed blonds and checking for the melanin-rich sisters.“So much about this depends on your attitude,” says Clelland, who runs a blog, Brooklyn. “They view us as just Americans,” (as opposed to hyphenated ones). An invitation to a Dutch bachelorette party and a wedding invitation that are signs of a true friendship with a Dutchie.17 comments For over twenty years I’ve been traveling and living abroad.