Realize that over 50% of girls and over 40% of guys never date in high school.The Bible gives us some very clear principles to guide us in making decisions about dating.Ancient Israel was warned not to intermarry with the nations around them lest their heart be turned from Him (Deuteronomy 7:3-4 11:9: “Rejoice, O young man, in your youth, And let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth; Walk in the ways of your heart, And in the sight of your eyes; But know that for all these God will bring you into judgment.” 1. : There is an endless list of good ideas for a date. (For one, consider I Corinthians .) 2:3-4: “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Can you think of ways we can act responsibly on dates?
Try to find a mate this way would be as exciting as watching paint dry. It has many twists and turns, and you deal with them as they come.
By choosing holiness instead of fulfilling the desires of the flesh, couples are raising the bar and allowing God to bless them in ways they never could’ve imagined.
Holiness gives a relationship a chance to grow in spiritual depth and encourages a stronger faith walk as a couple.
God has given us laws and wise policies to insure peace and enjoyable, uplifting relationships. 4:1-2: “Hear, my children, the instruction of a father, And give attention to know understanding; For I give you good doctrine: Do not forsake my law.” 5. : Parents are the people who know you best and always have your best interests at heart.
In our culture, dating is a means to learn how to relate socially with that half of the population that is of the opposite gender. What are some rules your parents have regarding dating? Keep this in mind when they discuss dating rules (such as curfew), and when they give answers or counsel to questions pertaining strictly to you alone such as, when you can start dating, how often to date, and when you are mature enough to begin dating one-on-one.