You need someone who understands all the love, time, and dedication you put into your child. They don’t have to worry about putting their kids to bet and getting them ready for school the next morning. Or do you want someone that hasn’t so much as changed a diaper helping you raise them? But a boyfriend that has kids of his own may be able to do you a solid and watch your kids while you go out with the girls on a Friday night. No one smacks single guys upside the head and tells them to grow up because they don’t have to. If they go out drinking on a Tuesday night until the wee hours of the morning, their only problem is trying to wake up in time for work the next morning. Do you want someone with experience of being a father mentoring your children, changing their diapers, and getting them to basketball practice on time? A single dad will fully understand why you can’t be so spontaneous. A boyfriend without kids is probably not someone you’d trust leaving your kids with.While the age of the child plays a factor, if you’re not looking for anything serious, you shouldn’t play the “I’ll figure it out” game with a ready-made family.Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.